Introduction
As we near Thanksgiving, it is natural to wonder how such a custom has been passed down and continued for over 400 years. What do we possess that enables us to renew this practice for so long? Frank Sonnenberg, an award-winning author, and clinicians at Oregon Counseling offer explanations.
Providing Structure and Comfort
Oregon Counseling’s clinicians posit that we engage in traditions to give structure to our lives. When we find ourselves undergoing difficult times, performing a familiar routine offers a sense of groundedness and a safe haven where we can retreat from life’s uncertainties. By participating in familiar customs, we experience a sense of normalcy and predictability. This structure helps alleviate stress and anxiety, making it easier to navigate through challenging periods. Living in such a busy world, keeping traditions alive allows us to gather our bearings for a few moments before stepping out to immerse ourselves in the hustle and bustle of everyday life.
Fostering a Sense of Belonging
The practice of tradition is key to our sense of belonging. By sharing common practices and values, traditions also allow us to fit into social groups, bridging gaps between individuals and creating a shared identity that transcends our personal differences. For those who may feel disconnected from their community, participating in traditions can be a way to find where they belong within a community. Once found, this sense of belonging reinforces our connection to others and affirms our role in the larger social fabric.
Connecting People with Each Other
Traditions do more than just preserve a certain routine: they create unity and bring us together. By participating in communal activities, we strengthen our social bonds. Traditions also allow us to reconnect with loved ones: during holidays like Thanksgiving, families and friends reunite to share a memorable feast. Some traditions also provide opportunities to experience new things we might not have tried otherwise, such as an unfamiliar dish brought by a friend on Friendsgiving. By focusing on common practices rather than differences, traditions enhance empathy and understanding among individuals, fostering a sense of togetherness and solidarity.
Reinforcing Important Values
Traditions reinforce values such as inclusivity, love, respect, integrity, and selflessness. They serve as living testimonies to the principles we hold dear, passing them down through generations. Moreover, traditions provide a framework for instilling these values in younger generations. Through stories, ceremonies, and rituals, we communicate important lessons and societal norms. This educational aspect of tradition helps shape individuals’ character and guides their behavior, contributing to the overall well-being and cohesiveness of their community.
Celebrating Milestones
Some traditions, such as graduations, weddings, or retirement ceremonies, celebrate important milestones and add depth and meaning to each of our own experiences in reaching these milestones. These practices allow us to acknowledge each other’s accomplishments, commemorate significant events, and reflect on each other’s personal growth. By congratulating each other on these achievements, we also foster a sense of cohesion and togetherness amongst each other.
Expressing Gratitude
Some traditions also offer a chance to say “thank you.” Whether it’s honoring veterans on Memorial Day, thanking a teacher on Teacher’s Appreciation Week, or giving thanks on Thanksgiving, these rituals provide structured ways to express our appreciation. This acknowledgment strengthens our relationships with others and acknowledges the efforts and contributions of individuals and entire groups of people, allowing them their due respect. In addition, the recognition not only benefits its recipients but also enriches the lives of those expressing gratitude, promoting a reciprocal cycle of gratitude and appreciation.
Offering Time for Reflection
Traditions provide an excellent time for reflection. In an ever-changing reality, they allow us to slow down and contemplate our experiences. Whether it’s reflecting on personal growth, thinking of all we have to be thankful for, or considering our new year’s goals, these moments of introspection are valuable for enriching the way we approach our lives. Upon devoting the moment to self-reflection, we are again renewed with the energy and passion to immerse ourselves back into our busy world.
Conclusion
As we embrace the spirit of Thanksgiving, it is evident that traditions enrich our lives in profound ways. They provide us with structure and comfort, offering a safe haven amid life’s uncertainties; foster a deep sense of belonging, connecting us to our communities and bridging gaps between individuals; unite us with loved ones, reinforcing social bonds and creating cherished memories; serve as a guiding compass for both ourselves and future generations by upholding values like inclusivity, love, and respect; celebrate our milestones, acknowledge our achievements, and allow us to express heartfelt gratitude; and they grant us moments of reflection, helping us appreciate where we’ve been and where we’re headed.
This Thanksgiving, as we gather around the table with family and friends, let us honor the traditions that have accompanied us throughout our lives. Let us celebrate the unity they bring and the warmth they spread. In doing so, we not only pay homage to the past but also strengthen the bonds that will carry us into the future with hope, gratitude, and a renewed sense of togetherness.
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